This may make the person realise that they have made you feel uncomfortable. Hopefully it will stop them doing it again in future. It can sometimes help to say things to yourself that help you feel better. You will find your own sentences to say, but here are some examples of things you might say to yourself:. You could also remind yourself of something you are good at. Take a look at our confidence tools for more ways of building your confidence. It can help to think about things you might do or say if someone stares at you.
That way, you will feel ready if it happens. It is in your power to choose how you will respond to others. If you're finding stares and comments hard to deal with, please get in touch.
Our wellbeing team offers tailored support. You can message us on WhatsApp, call or email. Sometimes, people staring at you because of a visible difference or disfigurement can be annoying and upsetting. Reassuring self-talk can help you manage your feelings. For this last example, you could use your own personal motto.
View our confidence-building techniques page to find out how to develop a motto. Preparing some responses in advance can help with handling staring. Try the exercise below and write your answers down or make a note on your device:. Your eldest child has just started school. You arrive to collect her early. I was just telling her something, and she called me rude? Better go check the dictionary girl. I hate it when people judged me because of how I act or dress myself.
It just urges me to stick my fingers into their eyes so they stop staring. And usually those people who stare at me wear weirder clothes! Pisses me off! OO The next holiday for me is on October. GAHH, It seems so far away! I seriously need a break, and it was just the first week of school! Ugh, I hate people who stare. Staring is very rude. Thanks to that rude guy. I think maybe those Indonesians stared at you because your culture is a bit different from them? They should give a little bit more respect.
Staring is so bad that I felt like ripping off their eyes. It causes me to loose concentration. Oh I love pickles! Once at my like 9th birthday I ate practically a whole jar of them. Gah, I have always loved them :D. In certain areas I get stares because I am black. To solve people starring though I stare back. Not smiling, no flinching, kinda in a fierce manner and the kinda people smile awkwardly and then I smug and shrug it off. But the bitches just look away or stare back. But either way I felt like I have stated my opinion.
Aw thanks! Yeah what you say is very true. Yah, he got me so mad.. Lmao, the sharpener was the least of our worries after this whole thing happened, cause my friend was too busy laughing while the teacher was staring me down and I was still whispering PSST at the top of my lungs.. Seriously, now. The only reason that I know those couple of sentences about chemistry is because my teacher forced us to write it in our notes. You basically decide what your day is going to be like..
I so get the staring thing. I usually give them a hint and then they look away. I think I let them down sometimes. Hello there Alice! I used to want to have really funky short hair but I quite like having it long as well. And cause sometimes I wear really baggy clothes. I like wearing baggy clothes. Haha this morning a young girl maybe 5 years old; stood in my line at Woolworth and stared at me while picking her nose. It was cute. I really hate when a pretty girl walks past me and stares at me, her eyes looking up and down my body like i intimidate her with my pretty looks, even tho she knows she is gorgeous.
Other times they look up and down like as to judge my outfit. What ever the reason; it pisses me off so much. I only stare if the person is glamorous or just unique looking. I never judge someone by any means. If they catch me staring i give them a big friendly smile and look away blushing and shy. Any way, how are you? Tell James to be careful, becuase there are very rude people out there. They stare at you just to cause trouble and if you stare back the fight is on. Iv had this happen to me and many friends before.
So immature. Gosh, that is really degrading. I knew a girl in high school who always looked down on people and was such a snob. If someone catches me staring usually I just give a small smile and stop staring. Look kind of apologetic that you were staring. Yeah, sometimes I worry that if I respond to someone really negatively in the street, they might try to start a fight. I get what you mean! More peace should be around us!
I might watch it then since you say so! XDD Pauline was! You were number 50! I was typing and when I finished the blog, I refreshed first and then i saw another comment was posted hahaha. So you were the one before the last! I will sweat to death! Funny you should say that though. Thanks for answering my questions!
I am a Catholic as well and I have a confession too. I would always be dragged along to the market because my mother needed extra hands to carry the groceries. Our dogs have always been male ones. I live in Indonesia now specifically Jakarta and when I got here I got angry all the time when someone was staring at me.
And I still get pissed until now. I seriously wanted to punch that guy. Dark mode. So what did they tell you in primary school? XD Nevertheless, I find no reason for people to stare at me. Lilian 12 September , pm. Omg what a very rude Indonesian person! How dare he be so…rude about your pale-ness. Georgie 13 September , am. Haha I know. Dayna 12 September , pm. But you stuck your rude finger up. That was good enough. I just feel really.
Sophia 12 September , pm. Lish 13 September , am. Diamond 13 September , am. D: Haha. Tara 13 September , am. It sucks. Julianne 13 September , am. Amanda 13 September , am. But I never asked them too xP ohhhhh haha. Onions and Garlic xD Unless its like cooked in, then its not that badd hahhaha bread is good xD My friend is obsessed with rye bread lmao lmao its soo weird how yours was so expensive!
Gillian 13 September , am. Bahaha, we mainly call it period here, but some people like my mom, say full stop as well. Monica 13 September , am. Staring is one of the rudest things man can do. My definition of staring: someone looking at you for over 4 mississippis.
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